I for one am glad that you took the time to confirm that this woman's membership was indeed cancelled. As said earlier in this thread, she'd entitled to all things Alpha Delta Pi if she is a sister, but since she's been deactivated, that's a whole new story!

I don't understand why she would still want to bid on ADPi items if she has been deactivated. I think I would be so heartbroken and ashamed that I would want nothing more to do with the whole organization.

I think she's in denial either that or hasnt quite comprehended what it means to have your membership revoked. She still communicates with some sisters and signs her letters/emails with loyally or pi love. I think it's partly that she is trying to keep up the pretense that she is still a sister. I dont think sisters were informed when her membership was revoked, after all it is something personal to the individual sister not the entire chapter. So if she never told anyone and none of the exec board passed on this information she thinks its ok to still pretend. Maybe she's ashamed. I dont know...shes a special one.