it is sad that you feel that way...that i have lost the respect of bglo greeks because i have not relented in standing up for my rights...you do not represent ALL of alpha kappa alpha therefore you definitely do not represent even a minute influential portion of all bglo's...and because of that, i can side step your remark,...but it is sad that you feel that someone that stands up for their rights doesn't deserve respect because they are standing up for their rights against a social institution as opposed to a political institution or entity...i cannot separate the two...they are one in the same...

once again...thanks...

talk about lack of discretion...hmmmmn...




[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt11 (edited May 12, 2001).]

You can only blame yourself.

blame myself for what?

surely you are not inferring that i blame myself for being hazed and then reporting it and then settling it and then moving on but then having people that think they know but don't bring it up every time they read an opinion totally unrelated to hazing that rubs them the wrong way...is that what you are talking about akatude?

so far, i have not called one of your sorors out of their name or belittled them...only challeged them to think about themselves...but i have been called:

crazy
sick
scizo
dillusional
paranoid
and now...i get to add a devil from the pit of hell according to shalom...so you do the math...

p.s. shalom...if this is so true...have you ever noticed how certain glo's hardly ever have trouble on their boards...just a thought...

[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt11 (edited May 12, 2001).]

i am just banging my cup on the table!

Well, seems like you all had more drama here than I did at work!

I'm banging my c http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/cwm/cwm/circle.gif up on the table, too!

You really don't know? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif Seriously? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif That, in and of itself, may be the problem.

What in the world is going on? Step away from GC for one day and all hades breaks loose.

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Soror AKAtude, I sent you an email.

For AKAtude, If this is who we all think it is then BeeJae from the DeltaNEt should have all of her information. When she was causing problems over there BeeJae traced her IP address. TheStalker also sent e-mails to all of the Presidents of the D9 sororities and BeeJae has updated them as well. Let's be in prayer for her, for real. This is beyond annoying now...

Shalom LadyAKA~
I Fe-mailed you. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

Shalom~

I like that new word -> Fe-mailed ... I am going to check now!!

VS is really sad. She just wants someone to pay attention to her. This is a cry for help, y'all!

you are absolutely right...finally...

i wanted someone to pay attention...i was involved in a hazing incident with your sorors, even though i wanted NOTHING to do with them, but i guess they just couldn't resist the irresistable...i followed the proper channels by reporting it as ALL greek prospectives are REQUIRED to...and was subsequently penalized for following the rules of not only YOUR organization, and my prospective organization, but those of the national pan-hellenic council, inc...there is a big damn difference between HAZING and PLEDGING and i don't appreciate having been hazed and "silenced" by members of the nphc who AGREE with continuing the "tradition" of hazing that is a sick and twisted misuse of the original pledge process...would you like to start a national discussion on hazing...i will gladly be your spokesperson http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif



[This message has been edited by VctoriasSecrt11 (edited May 12, 2001).]

"IF" you are serious how can we help ?

Hopefully, our melodrama is over with! http://www.plauder-smilies.de/kopfpatsch.gif

I'd like to apologize to all of the GC family who had to endure this "ya-ya" for the lack of a better word. Now, we should get back to the business of our usual discussions, etc.
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For those of you out there thinking that you will come to GC and act an a$$, think again. There are steps that can be taken to handle the situation appropriately. It may take a little time and work, but it is possible.

I have attempted to "clean up" those threads that were interrrupted.

TRULY, moving on...