it's over when i won't let him spend money on me cause that's trash.
yes when he irritates me and i start picking fights.
when i start using him to make another guy jealous.

this happened to a friend of mine:

it's over when you're already dating someone else

but for me:

it's over when you get sick of explaining who this "James" person is and why he keeps trying to talk you into doing "naughty things"

:D

Hey doing it in the Church on the Altar in-between masses was your idea! As well the toys . . and the ensemble cast of extras: The dancing midgets, the donkey, and the sheep! :p

dude, you totally promised not to tell about the donkey. i can't see you anymore.

/end hijack for both me and james

when I feel the "ick"-I know it is over.

It's over...
 

when the phone rings, and it's someone else, and you're so relieved it's not your SO that you thank that person for calling.

I've always found that to be a clear signal.

-while he kisses your neck, you roll your eyes and think 'not this again'

-when he says 'i am horny' and you think 'oh crap'.....

:rolleyes: (just brought this thread back up to get something things out in the open)

LOL, if a guy said that to me I'd laugh at him.

you start checking out PNBFs (potential new boyfriends), you don't want to deal or try working things out anymore, and find ALL the faults in the relationship (or him).