It takes a STRONG man to embrace true MANHOOD, and the "dog" I knew had a lot of maturing left to do.

I dated a Kappa for about 6 years. He was a dog in high school, a dog before he plegded and a b***ard after he pledged, http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif but I guess I knew that going in. My bad... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/redface.gif

However, I met an omega man, that has treated me like the queen that I am from the moment he saw me. We will be getting married soon. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

It is deffinately a plus that you know the difference between the Q-dog and the Omega man.

Congratulations! You found the needle in the haystack!

A little rough on the Omegas AKAtude. Unfortunatly thruth be told all of the Frats have people who are unfaithful and no good.

Sphinxpoet
*Handing SOROR Akatude 20 pink roses with a pearl in the center of each one*

AKATUDE:
Girl, I can tell that you had some issues with a Q DOG and I most definitely know where you are coming from. Imagine the most foul, vulgar man in the world, and you have what I experienced. Rude, nasty, and abusive. And I went through that crap AS A FRESHMAN!!! He used to tell me that if I left him, he was going to call my mother and tell her that I wasn't a virgin anymore. Talk about mindgames!

But, I can't lump him with all Omegas....but he was a true Q DOG!!!!!

Aaaaaahhhhhhh...Thanks, Sphinxpoet. You are soooo sweet. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

On a serious note, I'm not rough on Omega men, but the Que dogs. One of my future brothers-in-law is a Kappa and he is just as sweet and considerate as can be. The other future-brother-in law is a Que Dog to the core!!!!!

STOP IT!!!!! WTF!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif



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I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Actually, mine wasn't really that bad. We just tried the long distance thing and it just didn't work. He expected me to be at his every beck and call. NOT!!! The interstate goes both ways, and he couldn't grasp that concept, among other things.

By the way, Soror Convinced I'm sending you an e-mail.

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My 1st semester in college I dated an Alpha (i was 18 he was 24)
I thought he could walk on water... Until I had the flu
He was stepping at some function and wanted me there. I explained that i was sick and he made it clear if i didn't show there would be no us ( remember I was young). So i got there and he took one look at me and told me "you look like hell, i cannot be seen with you" I was devated and then to top it off he told me that he had a long term g-friend that he proposed to..
I was devasted..
But there was this one Que that took me out wined and dined me and loved me to death
Last year when he found out I was married he looked so sad ( he could always make me feel good)

Then there are those NUPES they always were such players but I loved hear the lines they came up with..

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IVY in my HAND-- AKA in my HEART

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I'm an equal opportunity dater...

Because of my heritage, Alpha men are the ones to care for me... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif

Kappas have always been gentlemen, but do love to play... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

Ques can be rough, but always keep it bumpin'... "Ain't nuthin' wrong, wit a lil bump and grind..." http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

Sigmas are large in many ways... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Although I have never dated an Iota, I've heard they are rather "FRISKY"??? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

So, all my men are wonderful--'mos definitely the deep dark chocolate ones... I cain't hep myself...

Girl, the two of us could have KICKED IT in college... we think alike!
P.S. I am much more tame now in my old age of 26!

ALPHA-know how to treat you, but sneaky!!

KAPPA-Clean-cut, gentle, great....but,too pretty!

QUE-????....Dogs, but smart and ambitious

SIGMA...Well, a very diverse group of men!!! You probably can land one good one!! They have too many kids!!

Greek letters or not as long as he is tall, dark, hadsome, spiritual and smart!! Not in that order, neccessarily.....

I just want to say, the Ques are not bad guys. We are just entusiastic and real. The type of woman a Que is a woman that is real to herself first of all, real and a leader when with her peers, real in society, etc... We just look for real women. Most women think they are real but I beg to differ. I've been with my girl for 3 years and I love her very much. We have great times as well as bad but we keep it real. She's my friend. See one thing these other guys be on and I can only speak for myself. If you are diggin' someone don't start off with that smoovie doovie bull most of these b*****d be on. Be yourself. That is what these others do then the groove of you and he get messed up cause you weren't real. See the....( you are going to have to excuse me this fat white lady couldn't say excuse me and put here fat ass on my shoulder: I'm had to talk funky to her ass... but I'm back)> Like I was saying, see the problem is not the Ques its the way you perceive things. Most people want to play the role of GOD and say I want you to be this way or that way, it ain't going to happen. What happen to the unconditional love? One thing I can agree with is that we are men before we pledge and after. I you were a weak sensitive b*****d before you joined an organization, you are going to be that same b*****d. Most women like men they can control, push their button and say move robot. Most men are so happy to be getting some for the first that they don't know what they are suppose to do. I heard a saying " That women like to want a man to want them", I heard this on TV from a therapists-meaning if the man don't think intuitively that he is sucka butt jones. The women is going to point out his down falls in society- not bad ones but the ones men forget and the ones women pay attention to. But on e thing I got to say " Is what in the hell is A phi A doing making a topic like this. You all are some funny Muthas. Get your thumb out your butt man, You are not going to change your ways overnight man. Serenity_24 keep on loving that Que cause I know he loves you very much cause I love my girl.

Uuuuuhhhhh...my Soror Convinced began this thread.

Also, are you referring to the same girl that lives 250 miles away from you? Well, I'm glad you understand that the interstate goes both ways (please refer to one of my earlier posts to understand that one.

So, does this mean you are still with your girlfriend that lives 250 miles away, or have you moved on that quickly? I thought you said she kicked you to the curb or have y'all gotten the relationship back on track? We know you are a sentimental kind of guy and all. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif