Ok.. well I think there are sometimes when its great to ask out a guy and sometimes well I would rather have him pursue me like if he already knows i am interested..

twice i have asked guys out..

one was when the guy liked me but didnt think i was really interested in him and wasnt still over my last boyfriend.. then another time the guy thought i was into his friend but i found out that he liked me a whole lot.. so i just made it known by asking him out..

i am very outgoing that way though.. if i like a guy i will pursue him.. if he ends up not liking that then oh well it prob wouldnt have worked out anyways..

For me it probably would work b/c I've asked enough girls out to know how frickin' nervewracking it is.
Can't say it's always going work, but what's the worse that could happen. If you get him on a date and all else fails...put out.;) ;)

And if you're not the type to put out, don't waste your time, is that it? :p

Thanks for the advice Betarulz :rolleyes:

Anyway, I think it might be a good situation, he seems like there could be some definite interest, but when we first met I was dating someone from out of town, so I mean there wasn't an opportunity. Just recently we broke up though and I figured it was time to make a move!

I definitely like it when girls ask me out. It takes the pressure off. If things don't go as planned, no big deal.