Looking back on my new member education experience, I can honestly say that whether or not you like your big isn't that great of an issue--but, as someone who came in not liking certain people and left loving them after getting to really know them, please give her a chance.

Don't look for drama or potential problems---and they won't be there.

"T" sounds like a problem sister. Thanks for clarifying the situation. The sisters need to handle "T" and get her to change her questionable behavior. Good luck!