Oh I'm so stupid, He showed up at the bar I avoided him for a while until one of my drunk sisters called he over on the dance floor. We danced for a while and I got myself suckered into him again. I asked him what were his plans for the weekend well his girlfriend is coming up Friday(today). So I figure okay we can just be friends. So me and my friend went to a party after the bar closed at one of the frats houses. He showed up and we talked so he wanted me to give him a call when I was leaving to make sure that I got home okay (why do you care you have GF). Then he wanted to know if I was going to go out next tuesday and wednesday because he wants to see me. All night he keep hugging and kissing me.

Why do I do this to myself? He has a GF. I really need to get over him. But I don't know how. I'm so attached and attracted to him. If he has a GF why keep bothering me.

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Why do guys with girlfriends do this? One of my very good guy friends is the same way with me. He's been with this girl for almost two years now, and he's always flirting with me and never talks about her with me. The only way I ever know they're still together is if I ask him, and he always quickly changes the subject. Please tell me that most guys don't do this behind their girlfriend's backs! Is this a common thing for guys with girlfriends to do?