It totally depends what position I'm in.

-Rudey
--Sexual position that is.

The first time someone called me cute I thought it was sort of bizarre...after all I'm 5'8"...I thought I was over the "cute" height limit. I will take either, however. :)

I think being called "cute" makes me feel sexier than being called "sexy" but maybe that's just me...

Depends on what I'm looking for :

One night stand or random booty call = sexy girl
girl to actually spend time with = cute girl

I would love to be called "cute". But that is probably because I have been curvaceous since I was in the fifth grade. No one ever considered me "cute". I always wanted to be one of those petit, little, "cute" girls. I wear pink, put bows in my hair, but no avail. I get thrown in the "sexy" category. :confused:

"I'm not bad. I'm just drawn that way." Jessica Rabbit

I get "cute" and "sexy"... it also depends on the situation... how you're dressed-- when I go to the bar I'm usually dressed "sexy" (in a classy-trendy way of course!) but there are times I'm dressed more "cute" and casual, depends on my mood. I like being told "cute" though... suits me better.

yeah, i get cute/hot on a 1:1 ratio. I like cute girls myself, easier to read.

my girl is sexy as all hell.......she's way to fine to be considered cute. you save that ish for like puppies and ish...let her be FINE. or better yet..FOINE!!

This totally made me laugh and struck a chord with me, too... ever since I was in jr high guys have always called me 'cute'. Never hot, never sexy, just cute....I'm the "friend that's a girl" like, always.....
Anyway, whenever they call me that, I'm like, I'm 5 frickin 9! Guys wanting a 'cute' girl don't ride this ride!!! LOL- then again when a guy does call me sexy I get really confused b/c i could never see myself that way....I think it's called having an identity crisis!

Classy?
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Trust me, you'll get SICK of being called classy! I swear, 'classy' is the adjective EVERY person uses to describe me! Throughout my house, I'm always "so classy" and it really starts to annoy you. I mean, it's a compliment... but at the same time, I'd really like to hear something new. My big sis used to call me 'the classiest girl' she knew and she'd throw it in whenever. "I chose this flower for my lil sis because it's such a classy flower... just like my lil sis!" And whenever I have to fill out a survey that has me choose 3 adjectives to describe myself, I always ask someone else. They're first response is always "classy." Even at work, when I mentioned that I was the only hostess who went to a public high school, my manager responded "Well, you're classier than any private school girl I know!" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?! To me, classy can kinda carry a negative meaning for someone who is kinda "prude-ish." Kinda "cold" in a way. Like, I think of Carolyn Bessette or Gwyneth Paltrow as "classy" and yet, they can definitely come across as very cold or bitchy to some people? I don't know, maybe I'm just having a hard time seeing the compliment in it. I mean, I'd rather be considered 'classy' then 'trashy'... but STILL!

I would LOVE to hear something new. And not "nice." I would kill for a nice, cute, straight guy to call me "pretty" or "beautiful" or even "hot." I think that would make my year- and it would definitely help me feel better about myself and my self-confidence.

To be called cute is to be seen as their little sister

To be sexy is to be seen as a conquest.

I'm gorgeous...

Personally, I thank the good Lord that I've been considered all of the above!

There's nothing wrong with being cute, sexy, pretty, adorable, classy, gorgeous, etc, etc.

It's when people STOP calling you cute, sexy, pretty, adorable, classy, gorgeous, etc. etc. that you need to start worrying! :)

I'm usually called cute. I think my boyfriend is the only person who says I'm sexy. But, I really don't mind. I like being cute. :)


My friend and I actually had this huge cute vs. sexy debate with our boyfriends, because we both agree that our boys are cute, but not really sexy. (Although, of course, we think they're sexy. It's just that the general public would probably not think of them as sexy.) They threw a fit because they wanted to be hot, not cute. We told them that it just wasn't possible because they're cute and nice and "boyfriendy." So now they call themselves the "miscellaneous men" because they're sexy enough for us to go out with them, but they're not really sexy overall.

Both are fine anytime but cute is a more outside the bedroom thing, sexy is more of a inside the bedroom thing.

I think I am doomed to be cute - short, blonde, and hyper.