I prefed AOII, Phi Mu, and Chi O, but I was convinced that I was going AOII (altho I loved Phi Mu just as much) for a few particular reasons. But I ended up in our letters, and I'm glad I did!! It's true---you end up exactly where you are supposed to be because I can't imagine being in any other chapter besides Phi Mu :o)

I went to DG, Pi Phi, and Phi Mu! But I'm pretty sure Phi Mu had my heart....oh around age 3, when my Mom bought me a Phi Mu Legacy shirt! By the time I pledged she had this whole stash of stuff from conventions over the years. I think she was always hoping! :)

I preffed AEPhi and SDT. I COB'ed Phi Mu! :)

My order of preference was as follows:

1. Phi Mu
2. KD
3. DG
4. Theta
5. AZD
6. AXO

At the pref round I was having a really hard time deciding between Phi Mu and KD. I'm very happy with my choice, but I do still sometimes wonder...

I preffed ZTA and Phi Mu. I ended up transferring the nezt year and always wondered who I would pref if I had rushed at my new school (besides Phi Mu of course)

I preffed SDT and Phi Mu ... and definitely ended up where I belong! :)

Phi Mu and Alpha Delta Pi!

I preffed KD, Pi Phi, and Phi Mu. I remember that I went to the Pi Phi house after Phi Mu and nothing against Pi Phi but the entire time I was just thinking about how much I wanted to go back to the Phi Mu house!

Phi Mu (of course), KD, and Sigma Kappa.
The only one I wanted all of rush week was Phi Mu :)

We only pref 2. Mine were Phi Mu and DG. Glad I ended up where I belong, I've always looked good in pink! : )

I preffed Delta Zeta and Phi Mu. At my school theses are the most similar houses and while I get along with and like the sisters of Delta Zeta I knew Phi Mu is where I belonged!

I preffed ZTA and Phi Mu. Me and the three people I new going into recruitment all ended up going Phi Mu too.

We could only pref two so my other was Tri-Sig. Phi Mu was not a difficult choice for me but probably could have gotten along okay with the Sigmas.

my older sister was a phi mu and only a grade ahead of me so I knew since my sr yr in hs I was going to be PHI MU! But I went to tri delt and maybe KD too for pref? But I always knew it was phi mu. I never had to worry like so many did during rush. Like my daughter is now! ughhh I have been on pins and needles all weekend! Phi Mu is rushing her hard, but I told her to keep her otions open, I didnt want her to feel pressure from me to go phi mu if her heart wasnt there ... BUT I REALLY REALLY WANT HER TOO!! I just will never tell her unless she ends up going phi mu ha.

I know how you feel! My younger sister is a senior in high school this year and planning to rush at Ole Miss next year. It will be my last year as an active and I'm trying not to pressure her into going Phi Mu but I'll be a little sad if she doesn't! Good luck to your daughter! I hope she finds her hΦΜe! :p