I think alot of times, chapters want EVERYONE to rush girls because NOT having all girls out on the floor will make them look smaller. Which means even having the not-so-good rusher out.

I was behind the scenes but I asked to be there b/c I did not feel comfortable talking to the girls. *shrugs* I felt it was in the best interest of the chapter to have our best girls out there. I was upset though b/c there were two girls that were friends of mine that rushed & I wanted to Pref them but on Pref night, I found out that two girls who didn't speak to them at all during rush were asked to Pref them instead. I was shocked & pretty pissed. I talked to the Rush chair & she said that it was b/c she just felt that the other girls had more in common w/them than I did though they were actually my friends.