Personally, I want to love James *SMOOCH*

BTW, I am having an illicit non-Pika affair with my favorite Kappa Sig, James. It's ok. My boyfriend's biological brother is a Kappa Sig.

tee hee!
I http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmili.../heartface.gif James!

well at least we found james' penis! ;)

This is why we all love James. He's not afraid to admit he wants some romance! I :heart: James!

I totally want some romance but realize I'll never have the movie romance. I don't just want the love in a movie. I want to be Meg Ryan in love in a Movie. She always gets the man. Even when she plays an alcoholic! :sigh: And I wonder why I fear commitment. 'Cause it can't stand up to the hype!

Okay, so say you have love like in the movies where everything is crazy perfect and amazing. I think that after a while, you'd even get bored of that. Then what would you do?

I am gonna agree there, i think you would get bored and then you need the practical love, the kind that happens in the real world.

How Dare life not be like the movies.

In the previous relationship that I haven't broken out of yet, I ACTED the way I saw people act in movies (truthfully, what else do we have to go on?), and he didn't act that way back. I got very hurt and frustrated, thinking he didn't love me.

It wasn't til I realized that he did love me....the way he knew how...

I think we all need to learn more about the other person and let our fantasies about anything or ANYONE being perfect.

I can't be a size 6 and he can't be Matty McC, so we'd better let our illusions go and let our defenses down...

Love is hard, but it doesn't have to be a struggle. Usually when it's a struggle, you are struggling with yourself and your perceptions...

If you let them go, you will either realize that this person isn't for you and leave or look at things in a different way and love them for who they are.

I don't think that's impossible...call me an idealist...but that's called true love.

I dont think it is impossible for true love.... I am a firm believer in it.

Sorry, too many chick flicks for me lately.. :)

ooooohhhh....i definately watched too many 80s movies, but pretty in pink has always sort of been my ideal romance. fall in love, have a hardship, everything works out in the end. i will let you know when i find my "blaine."

defintately learn from your relationship mistakes. take into account the things that you did or said that may have made the relationship go ary...not just what the other person did. bring those "learning moments" to your new relationships. by the time you meet the right person, you will know what you want....and you will be a better partner. don't be with someone just to be with someone....you will never be happy.

personally, i am waiting to find the man of my dreams. i will wait until i am 90 if i have to, but i am going to be with a guy whose eyes light up whenever i walk in the room, no matter what is happening...and my eyes have to do the same thing. oh well, i am an idealist.

I don't want movie love... it's not even good enough. I want love that makes the characters in the movie jealous!

No... really. I DON'T want movie love. It's too saccharine and fake. I just want really good, "real people" love. I want love that is perfect in its imperfection. Where we fight, but we know we'll get over it. And neither of us backs down or flees... Where we never get bored. We'll hurt each other again and again, but hey - if it doesn't hurt, you obviously never cared in the first place. And I'm okay with us hurting each other - we're only human, afterall - as long as we stick around to nurse each others wounds. I want someone to love me with an ardor that is unparallelled, and to show it in their everyday actions. That's all...

Okay, so let me get this straight...you are in love with Damasa? lol

But which movie would we want to be in-love in?

This is one of those great threads that remind me that all boys do not suck. And that my "movie" love is out there somewhere.

I want to be in love like in the Notebook....spunky, young love, and forever love.

Ever After...
Silver

When I was born my daddy bought my mom a diamond ring.