You're welcome. :D

OK, so this is gonna be a bit of a challenge
 

Wel, I decide to take some action. I call up Cream, and see what shes doing after she gets off work. She says nothing and I ask if I can come over and we can chill. Shes like yeah, cool. So I get over there and actually follow her roomates (my other good friends) into the complex. Shes in her room, comes out in her pj's and is all sketchy (its about 11 pm) I ask her, are you asleep already? She says "sort of." Then two and two come together and realize shes kicking it in there with a guy she met last night. Yeah.

So now do I move a lot faster? I am thinking so. Just come out and tell her. So shes obviously gotten over her feers to start dating again. I definately would rather tell her, and risk rejection, than to not say anything trying to build up a realtionship and shes already found someone else.


What do ya'll think?

Re: OK, so this is gonna be a bit of a challenge
 

Let's look at the facts here:

She tells you to come over while she's getting it from another dude.

You decide you're cool with someone's sloppy seconds.

She's got emotional baggage about relationships and right now is in her rebound stage which involves bringing home guys she met last night.

-Rudey
--Cream might not be worth it

yeah, that's kinda what i was thinkin......lifesaver, honey, darlin....don't be so blinded by your liking of this girl that you forget to respect yourself in the process.

best of luck, though....

Who invites a guy over when she's getting on with another guy?! That's a bit odd. :confused:

Rudey and AlphaGamDiva are right. I think that you should look for someone else. She might be in a 'one night stand' phase which could get you some action, but very short term. She seems like she needs to get her life in order before she can get involved in a relationship.

-Cream
--I'm definitely worth it! :)

lifesaver.................are you SURE she was with some guy????

Now that is just plain low life...really nasty, if she told you to come over! (Or really, REALLY stupid)

This is NOT the kind of person to waste a moment's breath on! YUCK! Find one wth a little class, Honey. OK????

Ps................class ALWAYS takes precedence over cute!

She told her roomate that she was trying to get the guy to leave. Now what I dont know is that she hooked up with him. They couldda just been hanging out. :rolleyes:

I am not trying to make excuses so that I can let the gal walk all over me. It is possible that since were all friends, she could have no idea I was interested in her (because I havent told her yet) and was thinking I was coming over to hang out with everyone.

Youre right, Yeah, its kinda shady tho that she decides to start dating again and so quickly has someone over. WTF is that???? I dunno. Its liek you cant tell your heart who to like. Its got a mind of its own, and its a 3 year frienship with 'cream' that I base my attraction on, not so much looks. I am VERY suprised at this behavior tho. Totally out of character. It just sucks, because I kinda had something else in mind when I envisioned all of this.

I think I am still going to say something. I dunno. Maybe not. Whats that old saying, "Better to remain quiet and let people think you are a fool, then to speak up and remove all doubt."

This just sucks. :( :( :(