XOMichelle, I am proud of you for putting yourself out there and calling him. :D It's better to know the truth even if it disappoints.

I really am surprised at how cynical all these GCers are. Am I the last romantic? :confused:

And no James, I have never heard of the term grudge f*ck! :rolleyes: :p

Cream, I'm a hopeless romantic too http://216.40.249.192/s/otn/love/1luvu.gif :)

And I agree w/ Cream 110%! I'm sure it took a lot to pick up the phone & call him, but like she said, at least you know what's going on.

Cream, believe it or not, I am a hopeless romantic. I just don't know about pining away for people. I also don't like to be the one to open myself up for vulnerability (i.e. making that call), so normally I just let stuff go. Pride issues, I guess.

I completely understand that. Pining away for someone, I've been there and done that and not going back. I think that it is easier for me just to be direct and ask what's going on with someone in my life than to start something new with someone new. I figure what's the worst that he can say? I don't like you or want you anymore. No biggie. His loss.

But when things are over, they are so over for me that I cut them out of my life completely. I'm cold that way. Just call me Ice Cream. :p

I'm very sorry to say that it most likely means nothing. The guy I was going to marry broke up with me and he continued coming over every once in awhile for sex for 2 months. It's natural, it's comfortable, it's good. But it's just sex. Don't give it to him, he's an ass for still thinking he can get it.