I think what Librasoul might be asking, and she will no doubt correct me if I am wrong lol, is who has the physical capacity to enjoy sex more.

Men or women based on physiology. Assuming that both partners are with someone they are totally into, really compatible with, pretty skilled, and are relaxed.

Also assuming that neither has any sexual hang-ups and both see it as their mission to get themselves and their partners off as intensely as possible.

Would the man or the woman have the capacity for a greater more intense orgasm and general experience?

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I think they enjoy it equally.

And I also think they think about it equally too.

It takes a lot longer than five minutes for me to enjoy it more! Hell, sex is the only thing I've found that is a good cure for my short attention span...:D

I think that it changes based on each experience and can't be generalized to one gender.

I definitely enjoy myself but I like to make sure that it's a mutual thing.

Thanks James! Yeah, I had to start the topic since *someone* was scared to. ;)

starang.....so, are u busy later tonight?

Good sex is the only thing I've found that is a good cure for my short attention span!!;)

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D*mn, how long does it take then? (never been there)

I heard stories of women taking as long as 30 minutes to....I hope that's not the norm.

:o Tease!!

Being dorks we used to say...

Well, which feels better the Q-Tip or your ear?

Honestly, I think men enjoy the act of sex more...the physical part, the physical pleasure of it.

Women tend to enjoy the more emotional part of sex, the closeness and intimacy that it brings with your partner. Sometimes, if they don't have this part in their sex life.....they don't enjoy it. Unless you have a guy who can make "her toes curl, her back twist, and her eyes roll into the back of her head" But, as we gals know.....most don't.


Maybe, I'm dating the wrong kind of dudes....

I can't believe I've crossed into one of these threads...lol. But I'll agree with whoever said that both enjoy it equally...especially when you are in close, committed relationship. It's much more enjoyable to me when I know that my partner is having an amazing time too :)

Let's forget love, emotional capacity of men vs women,

Physically speaking, I think that women have more of a capacity to enjoy sex more. The fact that we can achieve orgasm in more ways than one, and have the ability to have multiple orgasms (ohh, the lucky ones!) I also think that we seem to have hightened sensitivity to our erongenous zones.

;)

30 minutes? No, and HELL NO. Way too long.

As for who enjoys it more, I just think that we can never know. We probably ALL enjoy it very much, and that's why we all think about it all the time.