Report the bastard who played "chicken" with his big pick-up with monster wheels while my car was sitting STILL at an intersection last night. What's worse, the driver was not some punk teenager, that ass was in his 30's or 40's and his teenage son was sitting in the passenger seat. No wonder why children are so full of sh*t...they learn it from their parents. :mad:

-dated AG

-dated VJ

-wasted my final semester in school with someone who didn't deserve the time and effort i put into her....and who wasn't strong enough to let me know how she really felt, but i guess you can call that a learning experience....

-worked harder in school

I try not to think about my regrets... I think that "everything happens for a reason", but here's my list--

-- not had a boyfriend for a year and a half during freshman and sophomore year-- I spent way too much time with him and let my grades suffer and I should have made more time for my friends(ironically we broke up 2 days after I joined my sorority, and I'm a much different (better) person now.

-- went to Cancun for spring break sophomore year, again the whole boyfriend thing-- was planning on going, then he didn't want to go so I didn't go-- went to Daytona with him instead.

-- not told a guy I was seeing about a kiss in Acapulco during spring break last year.

-- went through recruitment freshman year.

-- studied a lot more than I have in college.

-- stuck with cheerleading (I think it would have been so much fun to be a cheerleader in college).

-- went to college in California and majored in film studies.

-- saved my money instead of blowing it on clothes.

--should have gotten more involved in campus organizations.

-- started my post-graduation job search much earlier instead of freaking out about it right now.

Although I am struggling with my aforementioned regrets, I am trying to find the good in my decisions since I too have come to believe that things happen for a reason.

I would have...

taken a year or so off before starting college
majored on Education at La Tech
stayed an extra quarter at Tech and taken those education classes
come out to Tx when I wanted to 1998, instead of listening to my mom and moving back to Louisiana to be with her

-Cut more classes in highschool.

-Went to that girls house that one day. I know she liked me too.

-sometimes talk more, sometimes talk less

-Read the freaking callboard.

-Stayed at the other bar last night instead of going back to the first on.

I guess it's not a regret. I just wish that I hadn't worried so much or felt so insecure. I feel better now.

I also would have:
gotten my driver's license in HS
told my crushes that I was interested
applied to law school
kept in touch with more people from HS and college
been kinder to my mother
been more aggressive

One more
 

OP got me thinking...

I would have gotten drunk and went to class in HS, at least once, my senior year. It seems everyoen did it once, and I wish I would have, just to say I did it.

I know whats a wierd one...

Re: One more
 

You can always go to your high school reunion, get trashed, and tell everyone what you really think of them. :p ;)

Things I wish I'd done:

1) Not wasted so much time with anorexia -- it's not worth it
2) Taken ballet
3) Gotten involved with high school activities (cross-country, theater) earlier
4) Not wasted so much of my time on Brendan
5) Gone through sorority rush last year, at Minnesota
6) Not taken high school so seriously
7) Taken last semester MORE seriously :)
8) Gotten a job earlier than last summer
9) Put more effort into finding a college

I'm sure I can come up with more . . .

-stayed in touch with Jarrett Williams when he dropped me off at school.

-not been so caught up on a 21 yr old fraternity boy liking me . ..and not lost my virginity when i was 19

-not gotten credit cards

-not gone to florida state. . .only to almost flunk due to grades

-moved away from texas(now i feel like i can't leave)

-not moved to louisville. . .all of the clubs here suck

-not taken my friendship for granted with my friend, casper. . .he found out that i was into his best friend and now, he'll never speak to me

-not left the PIKE formal on sat nite because i didn't bring clothes to stay the night(stupid excuse)

-should have moved to seattle when my brother asked me to. . .he's got a phat house overlooking the pac ocean

-not used up my inheritance on prada, chanel and gucci shoppiing sprees. . .half of the items, i can no longer wear

-i would given dave matthews my number a long time ago. . .and justin timberlake. . .and matt damon. . .

-i would have pursued a music career at belmont university

-Stuck with soccer after HS, I may not have been great, but I had so much fun.
-Never gotten the first credit card.. or the other four
-Not let JM talk me into putting everything in our new apt on credit
-Paid off my cards way before now
-Left JM when I found out he cheated on me rather than waiting 6 months because I was afraid to be alone.
-Given BL a chance even though I was afraid. He was the best thing that happened to me and I couldn't even see that.
-Let loose a lot more in HS
-Found myself before this year
-Had confidence from the beginning
-Been involved in more clubs and organizations in HS and earlier in college, I have nothing to put on resume's and aps now...
-Appreciated Europe when I went in HS, rather than getting tired of all the cathederals.
-Not fought with my mom all through HS. I still wish we had a better relationship now.

Good things to think about
 

Looking back I wish:

-I hadn't procrastinated as much
-I hadn't spent as much time with the boyfriend I didn't really like
-Lived in an all-frosh dorm
-Gone to Spain over the summer
-Studied harder last year
-Not applied to Medical School this year

What I hope I have the strength to do in the future:
-think about who I want to be
-DO what my heart tell sme to do, even if I am afraid
-commit myself to losing 10 lbs and finally feeling proud of my body
-M

For me, I wish I had...

-continued to pursue modeling or acting

-stayed in touch with more people from high school

-NOT PROCRASTINATED because I would have done so much more better in my classes, i.e. waiting the night before to start a 20 page paper last semester

-not been a journalism major

-gotten a fake ID as soon as I got to college

-not crushed on a certain older guy for most of college only to realize now in my senior year that he's just a jerk

-took more chances and not held myself back so much in fear of getting hurt

-not interned for a certain news station last semester because the internship was horrible experience

-done Semester at Sea or went abroad for a semester

-went through recruitment as a freshman (instead of soph. year)