There are 75 Brothers in my chapter. I can't make every event. However, I do purchase gifts or acknowledge the fact I was invited. Also, while I have great respect for Brothers, I don't always want to attend everything I'm invited - - - Like when 21 year old Bros have a party and ask me to stop by my first thought is that I'm going to be the oldest person there. That's when I pass. To cover, I send Alpha Punch or something.