I think that if everyone would just relax and gauge a person by how they act and what they say, we'd all get along just fine. I agree about the "lurking" thing. A lot of people on here probably don't know who I am, but I was once one of the most active people on this board (under a different name.) I know of a number of people who changed names due to harassment problems and of them all, I am the only one who has fessed up as to who I really am, but I really can't say I blame them for staying anonymous.

Geeeezzzz I've been harassed so much that I have had to switch usernames 13 times prior to this one.

But, you have to admit that many times you brought it on yourself.

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aephi alum, you crack me up! :)

exactly....except in arya's case, he changed his name to Miami1839 to harass people.

Sounds like Gamma Chi.

wow some people are uptight

If someone logs on to start a fight, the best thing to do is ignore them. If they're imposters, as in not really in a fraternity, or posing to be someone else, then it should be brought to the attention of the moderators and they deal with it. Eventually they get bored