Thank you TXDG! You have put this nervous mom's heart to rest. At our local school's Bid Day, there are lots of moms and I assumed my daughter's school would be the same. Thank you for your insight. Regarding the cousins, you are right. However, if I could not figure out a way for them to connect, I was really afraid DD would drop out of recruitment to come to the mountains to see her cousins. This way she doesn't feel conflicted. That being said, I hope when we get there she is on cloud nine...