As both a former member of I-team and a former Rho Chi, please understand something. Girls lie. A girl who dropped your group gains nothing by saying that she cut you, so if you ask her, she might just say "Oh, I didn't get invited back." You, as a chapter member, do not necessarily know what really happened. If your chapter has anything like I-team, THEY make the ultimate decisions, no matter how much they act like the chapter has a big say in the outcome. Sometimes I-team knows things that you do not know, which are unneccessary to share with the chapter. If a girl doesn't come back, look at it as just that. A girl not coming back. Whether it was due to her decision or the chapter's decision should be of little importance at that point.

Sorry :(

You may not be able to answer this question, but what is I-team?

Christin

Alright, I will tell you MISTAKES DO HAPPEN. Last year, as chapter president, I was working on bid lists with our computer chair, advisor, and rush chair until 6am after most rounds.

1200 girls/2 hours of sleep=well, i am not sure, but around the point where we think it is funny that someone's initials spell out ARM, you can't really expect us to be perfect.

I know of an instance several years ago where the computer dropped an entire preference party of 50 girls-panhell. would not allow those girls to be invited back (the chapter was prepared to call every girl before the preference party to let them know they had not been dropped):mad: panhell did nothing to help. So the girls thought the chapter had dropped them but it did not. It makes me so mad just thinking about it.

Unfortunately, I know of several more instances-what has made me angry is panhell would not do anything to help out and they would not rectify the situation. I can now see how a PNM can be accidentally dropped-especially in the large/competetive rushes. It is so sad that some of these PNM's blame themselves when it wasn't anything they did but a stupid computer glitch.