Are your pants made of mirrors because I can see myself in them?! :p

Him: Are you Jewish?
Me: No.
Him: Do you have any Jewish in you?
Me: No.
Him: Not even a little Jewish in you?
Me: NO!
Him: Would you like a little Jewish in you?
Me: Not if it's little! :p

Actually, I didn't say that. I just laughed and laughed because it was a really funny line.

I just have to say that if I do or say anything, I will get a laugh or a smile out of the girl. I'm witty you know.

-Rudey
--I just have one bit of advice to give on this topic to all guys. Make sure you see the girl's mom at some point. That's what you'll be bagging in 20 years.

Well ladies . . .

If you are disturbed by "silly men's tricks" maybe your sororities should sponsor a how-to-pick-up-women seminar.

Although if it were honest, it would be very different than the idealized approach women think would work.

Although to be fair, it would be different than what most men believe also.

Most men fail when they are out because they don't flirt with enough women on any given night.

Or they are using bad bait.

Or they haven't thought about losing the game and being themselves. Isn't THAT a novel idea!

Seriously...I have fallen for suave guys just like the next woman. But game can only go so far, then you have to actually get to know the guy. And for some men, they work so hard on their game, but are lacking when it comes to a real personality. Game is cool if I am dancing with you at the club and you wanna practice it on me. But will it get my number? No.

Guys who wanna know what is the right approach? Sorry you are outta luck, because there isn't ONE right approach. When people say "be yourself," it may seem like a tired cliche, but it really isn't.

You want a woman to be real and genuine with you right? So why would you be anything less when approaching her?

"All the world is a stage . . ."

Most guys do become themselves which is usually boring and inept LOL.

So the guys that are themselves all the time are usually boring and inept! :D

True Suaveness is not a sometime-thing, its an all-the-time thing. ;)

But seriously, yes its cool if the man/woman can be themselves, and that self is fun and interesting (in which case they don't need "game").

But for most people their "self" is neither fun nor interesting!

What I really hear you saying Librasoul, is stop false advertising!

And there I feel your pain.

Some people are very adept at being cool and interesting for a few weeks, and then we waste months before we realize that they really aren't lol.

Well, I would suggest that the woman make sure that she sees the man's Dad for the same reason.
;) :p