Encourage your daughter to attend pref and then make her decisions. Don't list any house on the MRABA where she won't accept a bid. Statistically, she is more likely to receive a bid from the weaker recruiting chapter. If she takes the risk and lists the chapter she doesn't want, receives a bid and chooses not to accept it, she has no options until formal recruitment next fall.

Thank you for all your advice. Luckily she got invited back to all three of her top ones today!

Life is good down south!