I was told AST can't have guys be sweethearts and we as sisters can't be little sisters at fraternities.. Now, this was told to me by a sister who hates that I hang out with one frat. and she thought I was about to geta bid to be a little sister. But I do know whenever we have nationals, we aren't allowed to mention anything about sweethearts or us being little sisters.

We have Mr. Alpha Theta Chi. Our current Mr. Alpha Theta Chi is a sisters fiance who is also our webmaster :)

You mean your DZs don't have Lad of the Lamp?? Maybe that's just a KY thing...

we had a dream girl but that turned into drama. Our national has friends which are ladies who help us out. I want that, just girls we know who are firends. then the dream girl can be someone famous like Julia Stiles.

When I was in school, our "big brothers" were called Diamond Studs. (our jewel is the diamond) ;)

I think the DZ's here have a turtle man. I was the greek chat Chi Omega Sweetheart :D

sig kaps at ball state have a Sigma Man... last year his name was Sam, so he was 'Sam, Sam, the Sigma Man" hehe...

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It is true that we cannot be members of a 'little sister' organization to any other group. (That I know for sure).

Now, it's my understanding that ASTs CAN be selected to be a sweetheart as long as it's an honor bestowed upon one woman for a specific period of time. (i.e. the fraternity can't have 25 sweethearts they pick at the same time,and have them do organized things like meetings, etc.) I also think that an AST chapter can have a Man of the Year/Semester (but not 25 of them at the same time, etc. etc.)

I will do a little research on the topic. . .

My KD chapter had sweethearts. They were 5 guys total. If one graduated, you had to replace him, and there could never be more than 5 at once. Some KD chapters I know have a Daggerman, which is kinda cool. :)

We also had a KD King, which was the guy who won our philanthropic male "beauty pageant."

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hey girls!

i'm not sure if ya'll knew it or not, but one of your sister was national runner up for Sigma Tau Gamma's White Rose (thier sweetheart) in 2001! -- that's a great honor, and i'm proud of her, she's the coolest girl!

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Yes, that is what I mean when I say sweetheart. I think pretty much every NPC at the very least "strongly discourages" their members from being little sisters. We're allowed to have one sweetheart but not little brothers.