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Originally posted by UF_Pike
Ok, Ok... I tell you what.....Heres a good lesson for the Lassie.

This happened back in 98...... Find out which of her sisters are pissed at her too. After doing this, ask them to have her be extremely active during the fall rush. have the sisters that hate her, be nice to her. Make it so that she and the other sisters are off doing something they shouldnt be to the pledges in the middle of no where. Once the pledges are tied up and have hoods on their faces, make sure they get this girl......Wait until they are finished intiating the pledges and then let them go. Tell them to keep this girl and leave her hood on. Wrap her in Saran wrap or a life size condom--buy them at spencers, her whole body....then have the girls take her to your frat house and you guys pour some liquid on her with RED dye, make sure it is thick. If you got the life size condom, it will look like a mans penis who nailed a chick on her period. This is disgusting and the most degrading thing you can do to her, it was done here at UF back in 98 but instead of the person being dropped off in front of the frat house it was a sorority house. Have the guys take pictures of her and go to Excerds and make hundreds of copies with the negatives. Blow some up really big and some reg. Post them all over Campus and all down their sorority row and at the bus stops at students complexs. I guarentee that she will either leave school or have a mental breakdown. Most certainly be scarred for the rest of her life. You have to be slick so that no one knows the parties involved, this could get you guys suspended and expelled if caught.

Hope I helped.

OK, and you were accusing ME of being vindictive?

I feel for the girl this happened/happens to. She might be a thorn in your side, but there's no need to make her want to transfer or scar her for life!

Good idea, though...wicked. and I think it's a great one to store away for a rainy day! I mean, it's not that much different than what they do to guys who lavaliere their girlfriends...saran wrap, condiments...

Sorry guys I think that would be extreme overkill making a tough situation ever harder.

But it's fun to imagine, isn't it?

No, really, you should just not let this girl bother you too much. If she's in your house talking smack about you to your brothers, then it's her problem...your brothers will be on your side no matter what and it just reflects badly on her.

UPDATE:

I had a sit down today with an officer and the decision has been made not to ban her from house but put her on notice that any inappropriate behavior will consequent in her being asked to leave immediately.

UF_Pike You are too much.

Kevlar, do you have summer events with your fraternity? Are you in summer session? I think this situation might blow over by the time that the fall semester rolls around. I wouldn't worry about it too much if you don't have much contact with her this summer. Maybe the invitation is her attempt to extend an olive branch. I don't know all the details, but if I were bad mouthing someone and were called on it in front of a bunch of guys I would do something to make it up to the person I hurt. Maybe I'm off base.

You can be the gracious one in this situation. She cannot undermine you with your fraternity. She has no control over that situation. You are right to try to have limited contact with her, but always be a gentleman. The closest we came to this type of situation in my sorority was a really bad breakup between one of my sisters and a fraternity brother. Out of our respect for her we never mixed with that fraternity. We didn't have a house so that wasn't an issue.

So I just read your update. I hope that it works out. :)

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Originally posted by Kevlar281
UPDATE:

I had a sit down today with an officer and the decision has been made not to ban her from house but put her on notice that any inappropriate behavior will consequent in her being asked to leave immediately.

Great! Why would she want to hang around so much if she'll be under so much scrutiny? I'm sure she'll come around at first anyway, with her sisters, but then the strain of trying to be good will be too much.

Just make sure you have some brothers you can definitely count on to keep an eye on her, report her behavior, and ask her to leave. If she thinks that you guys are bluffing she'll take it to mean that she can get away with anything.

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Originally posted by PM_Mama00

And you are kinda being selfish by wanting her banned from the house. How do your brothers that are friends with her feel about the situation?

PM_Mama
after the PM you sent me the other day about sticking up for our Fraternity and sisters, how can you ask that question? It's the same thing, they are his brothers, they will stick up for him. You know, that's what (part) of this whole brotherhood/sisterhood thing is all about. Trusting and counting on the other members of your chapter to be there for you. It just seems like you're double talking with this one.

LIOB,
Tara

I agree PhiMuNursie. Brotherhood and sisterhood is untouchable in my opinion. Kevlar said he hasn't said what he wanted to out of respect for his brothers. Even if the girl thinks she is right, she should respect his brothers, if not him anyway. Just walk away, they aren't her sisters. She has her own sisterhood.