Oh that's what I thought you meant at first-that she was a personal friend. Then I read "you probably know her too" so I thought you meant from GC. Thanks for clarifying.

Sometimes people act gossipy and backstabbing when they are afraid of losing their friends. If their friends are moving ahead in their lives, making more money or new friends, they can feel threatened. In an attempt to even the playing field, they try to knock others down in order to elevate themselves and feel better. It is actually pretty sad. Good luck!

For what it's worth Volgirl-I didn't see any implications in your post. Sounded like every other post I've read asking for help. When people type on a message board, I figure you always have to grant a little leeway because it's so very difficult to express one's self.

Advice-Reread what TOM said first! Then, follow what has already been suggested. Good Luck!

Yeah because if it was someone from gc that would be pretty lame to post about it. Really lame actually, thanks for clearing that up:)

Well Im sorry if I bordered on being "really lame". Regardless of where I know this girl from, her actions have really hurt a lot of people and I am just wanted some advice. :rolleyes: