OH and of course it was a Red Head DA!http://www.plauder-smilies.de/naughty.gif

Not good with red heads:(

Tom, what's wrong with redheads? I'm a redhead. :D

I am 26...and I think I lost my innocence about 2 weeks ago when my mom told me she had to buy my dad a cane to help him get around. That was a huge wake up call for me....that my parents are getting older and need me more than they probably let on. It felt/feels really weird to see my dad with that cane...very upsetting.

Tom I know what you mean about red heads :(

Hey! What's wrong with red heads? :confused:

I would have to say it was when I was 15 and my dad died. He was watching the college basketball playoffs when I heard my mom scream for me. He was having a heart attack. I tried cpr but it did not work. The doctors later say there was nothing I could have done. Needless to say I was never the same after all that.

ahhh, those sketchy sketchy redheads, tsk tsk *shakes head*

LOL

Nothing is wrong with redheads. Its just one broke my heart :( I guess Tom's too. Wow, I finaly understood Earp Speak:eek:

HEEEEYYYY NOW- I just went "red" this weekend! ;)

Welcome to the club! I hope that you like it!

I think I also "lost my innocence" gradually, but the nail in the coffin was when I got my heart broken by the love of my life. I've never cried over anything or anyone that much.

I thought about this all day today. I tried to relate one of my memories from the farm to my loss of innocence, like when Daddy took my first bottle fed calf to the stockyard cause he had gotten too big and rowdy. Or the time I was playing in my neighbors work truck and stumbled across my first Hustler. But really none of that really struck me as my loss of innocence.

I think my loss of innocence came in 5th grade. I was sitting in class, and about an hour before the bell rang to go home, our school guidence counselor came in our class room and gathered up all the girls and took them out of class. Later, after picking on a neighbor girl who was in class with me until she got so damn mad she finally told me what the counselor had taken them for, I found out that it was to have the "talk" about the "changes" that were taking place in their bodies. Well that statement ment about as much as a bucket of hammers to me, so I went home and asked my mom what it all meant, and she told me. Then after explaining it to me in a way that only a mom could, she looked at me and said "your cartoons are on, why dont you go turn them on......" and I just shook my head and said "Not today mom." I went out on the farm and rode with my dad on the farm all day. Yeah, I think thats it.

One Day I found weakness in my father and realized that he is not God.........Is there anything more crushing?

Okay, let me think abot this....

I remember my mother telling me she was raped by the first serial rapist in our state. She told me the entire story in detail and all I could think of was bad things don't happen to good people. I realized then no one is immune from the pains of life. That was really hard. Thinking that my mother had to go through all that, even worse, my brother was 5 at the time and at home and she was pregnant with my other brother. People can be scum, and that is when I loss my innocence. I was 12.

*When I found out sex wasn't when people deep kiss, but when a man sticks his uh-uh in a woman's uh-uh. :D

*In Kindergarten, when I realized how cruel kids can be.

*A year ago, when I realized how cruel ADULTS can be.