Just for the record, all boys should date Phi Mu's!

Obviously I have never dated a sorority girl, but I have a few anecdotes regarding dating in the Greek system...

I dated a frat boy at the beginning of the year, and he was pretty mad that I went to another frat's barndance. Oh well. After we broke up, he dated several other girls in my house, and I really could have cared less.

One guy my freshman year was trying to play me and another junior in my house at the same time. We may have been two pledge classes apart, but we both lived in the house at the time! Needless to say, he was totally blacklisted after that.

The point is that if it is a clean break-up and you do not do anything shady, it is very possible to date someone else in the chapter. The best way to do this is to call her and tell her that you are interested in her sister, can she hook it up. This lets her think that is was her idea, and her pride won't get in the way. If she broke up with you, her sisters are fair game.

I agree with you guys I have had a crush on about every sig pi at our school...but boy wasn't that trouble!