If people are telling PNMs what to say or not say, it's usually meant as advice because there are way more people lurking on here than posting - as evidenced by the many references to it on reek grank - and it can come back to bite them in the ass.

But hey, if a pnm wants to come on here and say "lambda beta at UGA was full of the ugliest most awkward girls I've ever seen", then knock yourself out.