hmmmmmmmmmm
 

Okay. This goes back to the thread in Alphaland...(the one about a "good woman would..."

So OA, speaking from your explanation, did HE cheat? or did SHE cheat?

How would you react if SHE cheated on you (any male observer)? Would you after so many years want to get back with her? If she was the "right" one for you? If cheating was the ONLY drawback and she asked for your forgiveness SINCERELY and has not repeated the behavior, would you take her back?

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Yes, I would; depending...
 

on how it happened, and how we came to that point. I judge people based on what they DO. Everybody's got a mouthpiece these days. If the girl in question had "feelings" for the brutha she bent with, I wouldn't even try to deal with it. If it was an "honest" mistake(and the ONLY ONE like that), if we had a good thang that lasted a good amount of time, and if I still had feelings for her, I probably would take her back--but under condition. I admit; I would be hurt-bad; but I would give her another chance-and JUST ONE MORE CHANCE.