I thought of this post today and thought I would bump it for all our fall PNMs. This happens in recruitment these days with the early, heavy cuts that most sororities are required to make.

Just go with the flow if you're cut! Go all the way through prefs (no one can force you to sign a card or pledge) and see what develops!

Yes. It truly is a numbers thing, not personal. In addition, the sororities have an innate sense of those who would shine brighter in a different group. Although it stings, it is for the best. Reevaluate your choices every round, searching for the place where you can be you, and will be loved for who you are.