I am kind of afraid of what my girls have planned for me. I am generally known as someone who is...well...a prude. People think it's funny. At least I'm not a hooch! Anyway, I'm not that prudish, it's just that I am slightly innocent and people think that's cute. Anyhow, this makes me think that people will want to get a stripper for me, which would totally gross me out...I mean, some oily stranger in a banana thong dancing up on me...don't think so! I want to do something fun like an 80's retro girls night out where we all wear 80's clothes or something and go to Polly Esther's or Boogie Nights. I don't want to be so drunk that I don't remember it or go to LaBare or anything. Especially since I am moving away and I want to have a quality time with my sisters and friends before leaving :)

Once again, I'm not normal but... If a stripper is involved, I guess I'd prefer it to be at a strip club. Big deal. Its not like the boy is anything other than a tip to the chic.

As for me, I've been to a male strip joint. I still have nightmares. No thanks.

OK, ladies this for you...
 

When i was working at a restaurant in college, a bachelorette party came in and they were playing the Lifesaver game. Its where the party puts unwrapped lifesavers (im sure other candy will do too) all over the bride-to-be's shirt and they have to get guys to bite them off. Would you particapte in this?

I've already told ALL my friends that no one will be sucking anything off of me when I have a bachelorette party. I will not run around in a shirt that says I'm a bachelorette, I will not have a checklist of stupid stuff to get, I will not wear a veil. So, short answer, no.

Ugh, It would never occur to me to have a male stripper at my bacherlorette party. It's just not my thing, at all. Furtherore, the idea of touching his skanky bits and pieces? HELL NO. That's disgusting.

If my boyfriend wanted to have a stripper with his guy friends, that's fine. I wouldn't be marrying someone who I didn't trust, so I don't think I'd worry one bit.

Ahh...to each his own.

I don't think I'd like the "suck for a buck" - as it's commonly called in Nova Scotia! We did wear t-shirts that said "Vera's Bachelorette Bash" on them...and my girls got me a veil and tiara...which I loved...it got me free drinks from guys all night long!!!!:D:D

Well, I don't plan on wearing a veil on my wedding day so I'd look pretty odd wearing one for the party. I was a rebel. Didn't even have one at age 7 for my first communion.

Sure it is okay, though probably better in a club than a 'private party', but I find it a bit disrespectful. I think that a night out at Hooter's would be a better idea.

I love this thread as I am currently writing the Bachelorette Party chapter of my novel--keep the stories coming-- Has anyone gone to Vegas for theirs?? Or travelled to someplace outside of their hometown??

Naaaah Damasa.....BIG pimpin would be if he could get his girl and a FRIEND for free!!!!!!!!:p

Oh boy
 

I definately would never want a male stripper, would never allow people to bit stuff off me. I resect engagement. When i have a bacheloretter party I want a day at the spa and then end it with a sort of secret santa type thing where we all have drawn a name, but instead of normal gifts we get sex toy gifts. I think it owuld be hilarious to see what kinds of stuff people buy. If htere was a male stripper I owuld laugh bc I think men dancing in combat boots and a thong is hilarious- they look silly.

Huh? LOL :D

great topic
 

i really liked the AlphaSig's idea of going to a spa and then having a secret santa thing. that would be cool. or i like the idea of each of us going out with out friends and then meeting up at night so that we both know where the other is and can wake up on our wedding day together... thas romantic.
as for bachelor/ette parties. i dont want any sweaty, gyrating man coming near me at all. its not appealing. as for my boyfriend, he said he doesnt like that either but i've met his friends so they would probably get a stripper for themselves... lol