There is some really excellent advice here. It sounds like you have a "sweet" relationship but not a love-of-my-life sort of thing. If you break up before college, you may have a shot of looking back at this time fondly, thinking of her with warm memories and happy nostalgia. If you don't break up and you embrace the "casual encounters" that some college students enjoy, you will probably never look this girl in the eye again. She will be hurt and angry. You will be THAT guy. You don't want that. Sounds like AlphaFrog is right on the money--if you love her, let her go.

I have to add that I positively loved TonyB06's post. Even though I basically gave the opposite advice, in general I agree that premature, artificial decisions are problematic. That kind of decision is based on how you presume you will feel at some point in the future.

Good luck, OP! I hope you have a great college career.

nope, actually we live in a very big city, the capital of the state actually im just not going to be specific. we go to different schools. i assume that there will be more choices though.

thats spot on how we feel about each other. thanks for the understanding!