Advice from a chick - have you made any friends who are in fraternities? Anyone in your dorm, classes, etc.?

So many people don't get that membership is based on friendship - existing or potential. It's about making friends. Friends come in all shapes and sizes.

People they get along with, people who share interests, people who can introduce them to new experiences, people who inspire them, who make them laugh, who will have your back when you're at your lowest and cheer you along at your highs, who sometimes will tell you what you need to hear and other times, tell you what's best for you, the ones who challenge you, the ones who love you for you.

Make friends for the sake of friendship. Don't be pushy. The rest should follow.

Between all your threads, you seem to be doing WAY too much sitting in front of your computer and not enough GETTING OUT TO MEET PEOPLE.

Go to rush events for multiple fraternities. Talk to fraternity men outside of rush. MAKE HUMAN CONTACT.