just to clarify
 

i was more refering to someone's reply that an underwear party would be "tacky". i was saying that everyone goes for tacky, not necessarily that we should all dress in our skivies.

We had a boxers/tank top mixers. It wasn't tacky at all, the more "endowed" ladies just wore something over their tank tops.

But NWIH would we have gone for an undie mixer, unless of course, the gals wore boxers & the guys wore garter belts. Pajamas works too, you can get as sexy as you feel comfortable with and no one is pressured. I went to a pajama mixer in sweats and a T-shirt and said "hey, this is what I sleep in." I think those nice comfy flannel jammie pants in the groups' colors would be awesome, if you could find someone to make them.