Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 2178707)

It is only if you SIGN A BID CARD and then quit pledging that you are ineligible for a year. You can decline 20 bids in 20 days and take #21 with no problem.

xorosho - what you may be thinking is that in formal rush, after you sign your pref card, you are bound to the sororities you wrote on that card. In other words, signing a bid card = signing a bid.

If you don't sign anything you're fine. If XYZ pressures you, just let them know that you are keeping an open mind and looking at more than one sorority and you would like time to finish that process before you sign a bid with anyone. If they can't understand that, it is not a place you want to be.