It's been said before, but basically it's going to come down to how well you see yourself fitting into different chapters on your campus. That's what Rush is all about. My chapter is pretty mixed, some like to party hard, some don't. All of us basically dressed alike (meaning, there's no radical dresser in our chapter), but we're certainly not showing all of our skin on a daily basis. It is college, though. Remember that. If you pledge a sorority you fit in with, remember you'll have socials with those who you don't see as conservative. It's a give and take.