Oh! It's a POTATO! Well, at least I knew it was SOME kind of veggie, right??? ;)

Ok then, Law school is my POTATO! :D

They should put that in the brouchures - study law, have potatoes! Man, I'm delirious...too much studying. Personal jurisdiction rules are NOT FUN.

Oh well, I have potatoes!

I was actually trying to point out that it may be harder to leave a long established marriage involving a great deal of assets and children than say your high school sweetheart. Even over infidelity.

I agree with the love factor, but I am not sure it requires marriage to validate it. I am not anti-marriage I am just being clinical ;).

Timing seems to have as much to do with marriage as any great love or passion it seems also.

But I notice that some of the posts are a bit cavalier at the ease of leaving an established economic unit, children, and a deep emotional bond. Albeit one that has been betrayed.

Persnally, I can't imagine ever getting past infidelity (short of there being some kind of prior agreement). Even if I tried to forgive in the short-run I would end up despising the woman. In that case I would definitely go for custody also, regardless of how ugly that trial got.