Are you planning to join an NPC sorority on top of being a member of APO? Not that it can happen, but if you can't balance the amount of work with what you have now, how will you balance it with another potential new member period?

Yes I am many people do it.

The balance of work has nothing to do with it.

The reason why I know I can do it is because my step-mom who had cancer passed away. Thats what made my gpa bad. I left my school to help my dad. The are more reasons that I do not wish to share.


I'm sorry I made this stupid thread. I was better off just speaking to the sororities on campus which was what I was doing.

QFP

I'm confused. You pledged APO, but also went through Formal Recruitment last semester, which you dropped out of? Then you transferred to a CC for this semester, and are planning to go back to your original university this fall?

Wouldn't your CC GPA from this semester be the one that counts?

yes

I left Bg for personal reasons. I had to deal with stuff at home.

Many people in AphiO are either in a sorority or a fraternity. It is allowed.

I know this. I never said it was a problem.

The problem is that your story doesn't make sense.

First you said this...

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Originally Posted by littlealexmarie http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums...s/viewpost.gif Were any of you ever allowed to pledge if your gpa was below the requirement? I have valid reasons for not having the minimum gpa. I spoke to the sororities on campus and some said they won't take me and some said they would work with me. I just don't want to go through formal all over again to not get a bid. Its so heart breaking.

... where you made it sound like your grades prevented you from getting a bid, and you left recruitment heartbroken because no one would give you a chance. And then you said this...

So... did you leave heartbroken because your grades were terrible, or because some meanie told you you'd fail, causing you to drop out of recruitment?

okay I'll explain it better for you.
I was having many things in my life happen that were out of MY control that hindered me from performing well in school. I left my university for a semester while things were claiming down. I pretty much fixed everything that was wrong that I couldn't fix before. Now I've finished this semester with A's. So since everything is better I'm going back to the university.

I hope that clarifys any confusion.

because of that girl I was so heart broken and dropped out before round 3. I really thought I wouldn't get a bid and I didn't stick around to try. My fear is that I do stick around and I get no bid at all.

At this point, it looks like I won't even go through formal this semester.

Please go through recruitment, you have nothing to lose. If you don't get a bid from anywhere, you at least won't be looking back saying "what if i just went through recruitment..."

:)

If this is true, why would you ask this question:

You didn't "not get a bid." You dropped out. Your story still doesn't make sense. But good luck with all that.

Is she on the witness stand?

Why are you still here?

Why are you still here?