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BemoreLXA 03-18-2011 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 2039465)
When I was a pledge we had to wear our pin everyday except for the 4 S's.

wow

lucgreek 03-18-2011 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 2039465)
When I was a pledge we had to wear our pin everyday except for the 4 S's.

That's how it was for me as well. Every fraternity on campus required it too.

Drolefille 03-18-2011 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito (Post 2039465)
When I was a pledge we had to wear our pin everyday except for the 4 S's.

I'm missing an S, or possibly two if defecation isn't included.

lucgreek 03-18-2011 10:49 PM

Sex Sweating Showering Sleeping is how it was said when I pledged.

BemoreLXA 03-18-2011 11:40 PM

haha I'm glad I didn't have to go through that

excelblue 03-19-2011 02:21 AM

The 4S's applied to me as well, and I was actually one of the co-founders of my chapter. The entire class just did it after some consultation with alumni in the area. Though, sometimes, we wear the pins with t-shirts.

There may be certain standards of dress that may be expected of you, and while it may feel weird to begin with, you'll eventually get used to it. If you wear clothes nice enough for the pin, you'll look sharper / more grown up.

I highly suggest talking to the people who offered you a bid about the clothing question. Just casually bring it up and see what they say.

MysticCat 03-19-2011 08:56 AM

Count me in on the 4S rule, too (though it was a while back for me). I know there's been a discussion about it before -- it's very common as I recall.

PiKA2001 03-19-2011 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by titletown (Post 2039453)
So about the examples I gave lol?

Those shirts are fugly and unacceptable for anyone over the age of 14 and I also call troll. No one would wear Lacoste or VV one day and a "diamond heist" T-shit the next. It's like going from wearing Brooks Brothers to Hot Topic.

- only hipsters and gays wear American Apparel and you sure ain't a hipster.

--ditto on the 4 S rule for my chapter as well.

33girl 03-19-2011 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 2039577)
Those shirts are fugly and unacceptable for anyone over the age of 14 and I also call troll.

Agreed. There are some things at PacSun you can sneak through the SEC with but those aren't it.

On another note: http://shop.pacsun.com/Guys/shirts/H...hirt/index.pro Really???? I think my dad had this shirt, or maybe it was Lennie on Law & Order. I'm assuming these are fitted and you wear them tails out?

lucgreek 03-19-2011 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 2039564)
Count me in on the 4S rule, too (though it was a while back for me). I know there's been a discussion about it before -- it's very common as I recall.

I always thought it was near-universal except for the groups who revamped their 'pledging' (LXA, for example) since wearing the pin at all times can be considered 'hazing' :rolleyes:

Drolefille 03-19-2011 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 2039577)
gays

Stop.

MysticCat 03-19-2011 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by lucgreek (Post 2039591)
I always thought it was near-universal except for the groups who revamped their 'pledging' (LXA, for example) since wearing the pin at all times can be considered 'hazing' :rolleyes:

I think you may be right. It's actually in our General Regulations that "[t]he probationary member pin shall be worn at all reasonable times (i.e. probationary members shall not be required to wear the pin during sleep, at times when it could cause injury, etc.)."

lovespink88 03-19-2011 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by lucgreek (Post 2039591)
I always thought it was near-universal except for the groups who revamped their 'pledging' (LXA, for example) since wearing the pin at all times can be considered 'hazing' :rolleyes:

During my 4 years in school, I don't think I ever saw a guy wearing a pledge pin around campus. And I can assure you that the majority of groups don't have a revamped pledge process. Maybe the campus culture has something to do with it?

Psi U MC Vito 03-19-2011 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by lovespink88 (Post 2039635)
During my 4 years in school, I don't think I ever saw a guy wearing a pledge pin around campus. And I can assure you that the majority of groups don't have a revamped pledge process. Maybe the campus culture has something to do with it?

At least with Psi U, we wear it on the innermost layer, so you usually wouldn't see it.

LaneSig 03-19-2011 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by lovespink88 (Post 2039635)
During my 4 years in school, I don't think I ever saw a guy wearing a pledge pin around campus. And I can assure you that the majority of groups don't have a revamped pledge process. Maybe the campus culture has something to do with it?

Not being snarky, but maybe you just didn't notice it. Sigma Chi pledges always had to wear their pledge pin. Although, pledge pins can only be worn with a collared shirt (so, Polo type is ok). No t-shirts and pledge pins together.


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