Why do you call yourself an alum if you never initiated?
Why did you say you had alums at your initiation 25 years ago if you weren't initiated?
If you're an "alum" then you have no need to do AI.

Silliness. Watch out lady, the ADPis here will have a field day with you.

Why would you expect women who are not your sisters to be "sisterly" with you?

Wow...

Ok, so she's pretending to be a member of a sorority she's not a part of, she wants to help with a ceremony she knows nothing about, she probably wants to help with said ceremony so she can see something secret and sacred that she has no right to see, and she's confused as to why girls who aren't her sisters are pushing her away...

Popcorn, please!

We were due for one of these. I'll have some popcorn as well.

Um..... yeah. :D

No initiation of your own 25 years ago = no alum status = no helping at an initiation now.

If you truly are what you say, then 1) you need to get your story straight, and 2) Why don't you get on Pride Online and fill out a "will serve" form to let the Alumnae Directors know about your willingness to get involved with the chapter near you. Also 3) come introduce yourself in the ADPi form, so that we can all get to know you.

If you were not initiated, then see above and you have no right to use adpialum as your username.

Any room left on the sofa? If not, I'll take the easy chair, please.

The MS State perp pretended to be a Chi O. The ADPi perp was at a university in Alabama and all this does sound like something she could've written!

I still want to throw up when I see her FB profile picture because she's friends with a friend of mine.:mad:

Is her name Jacki by chance?

@carnation, did you know that you can completely block people on FB? There are privacy settings in the My Account section. So, you could block this "perpson" and not ever see her photo or any of her posts or anything. It's useful for those icky-creepy types of situations.

Yep.

AzTheta, I'm going to look for that privacy feature now. Seems like every time I go to my friend's page, ol' perpster's photo shows up.

could a sorority chapter take a restraining order out on someone?

has any adpi notified your headquarters about this perp?

Then you might be interested in her first post on October 17, 2010:

For the sake of all chapters of all sororities, I think it's time to out this one here. For real.

i agree.

OMG her Facebook page is the saddest and scariest thing I think I've seen since Universal Ultimate KD Perp Butterface Supreme's.