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But I also would tend to think that anyone, not just someone of color would be able to see huge differences between people of African descent because, IMO it's much more noticable than mostly anything else. |
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My $0.02 as the white person here...I tend to identify caucasians by hair color. I think other whites do as well. Example: When I started dying my hair red, people in my church started mistaking me for another redhead in our church. Even people who had known us for years couldn't tell us apart from behind, and she's got a good 4 inches on me. |
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This is the same kind of thing that is considered with criminal cases that comes to a question of getting a reliable witness description of a suspect. Racist tendancies aside, when people go to describe a suspect of color, one who is Asian or hispanic, how accurate is their description if they don't know the difference of features that sets us apart? |
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I have been the only Black person or one of few Black people in settings all of my life and I have been called by someone else's name--someone who looks absolutely NOTHING like me to the point of having a different complexion and different body shape and everything--all of my life. I have had white people say "you look like this actress" not because I look anything like the actress and white folks can't tell the difference when it comes to nonwhites but because that actress is THE Black woman that those white people can think of/have seen. Even sharing a complexion or a hairstyle is different than looking like someone. That is what "othering" really means. The most recent time that I was mistaken for another Black woman was by a colleague a month ago and he later apologized profusely because he knew what was embedded in that mistake. I just laughed it off with him and said "I have a difficult time remembering people, too" but I know that my difficult time remembering names and faces spans across race and ethnicity. I don't remember Black folks, white folks, etc. He just called me "the other Black woman's name" because he was used to there being only ONE Black woman in his colleague circle. Since I replaced that ONE Black woman on that particular day and he wanted to introduce HER to his wife, I became HER in his mind. As for my mistaking white folks, I used to do that to two men all the time because most of the people in my nonfamilial settings were whites. I mistaked my teachers in college and they were different heights but had the same hairstyles, same voices, and style of dress. Years later, they don't look as much alike but I have a difficult time remembering faces, in general. It used to be funny when I walked up to one person talking about something that I should be talking about with the other person and the one person would always say "uh...I'm not Paul." Embarassing yet doesn't hold the same potential weight and outcomes as when coming from the majority in power. |
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But what's really important is that this topic isn't so much about distinguishing Chinese vs. Japanese (that was a great martial arts movie) because that requires a general knowledge of the physical differences between ethnicities and cultures that the average person across societies does not have. DUH. Instead, it's about being able to distinguish diasporas of people and knowing that THIS Chinese person is not the same person as THAT Chinese person (or THAT Japanese person if people want to go inter-ethnically). |
I think it comes down to exposure in one's every day life. My clients are predominantly black male (which is a whole nother topic) and after having had them in my groups once I don't tend to forget their names or mix them up. But it took me having interactions with them where I was using their names and identifying them by sight as "Mr. ______." Except for brand new clients (or ones who never show up) I only have 2 guys whose names I confuse and it's because they're both tall, thin, have names that start with the same letter and similarly shaped faces. But they don't look alike, my brain just fumbles with the right name for the unique face.
But with another population entirely I don't know that I'd do as "well" without more exposure. |
I don't think I've ever tried to guess someone's ethnicity/race. If the topic comes up, I will generally ask the person what his/her background is.
Ex. Instead of "You're Mexican, right?" I'll ask "What is your background?" or something. Easy fix. |
I don't think Asians can tell as well as they say they can. I went to Tokyo last year for my birthday with my husband and my good friend, Sarah, who is Vietnamese and was adopted at birth by a white couple. She was mistaken for Japansese everywhere we went in Tokyo. Many times, waitresses would try to speak Japanese to her and get mad when she didn't understand them, then look at me like I could explain why she didn't know Japanese. I think they thought she was out Japanese tour guide.:rolleyes: Sarah was also baffled that everyone kept handing her flyers and coupons as we passed stores but never handed them to my husband and I. The flyers were in Japanese, not Vietnamese, so they would only benefit her if the people thought she was Japanese.
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