| GMUBunny |
02-12-2010 02:01 PM |
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Originally Posted by AGDee
(Post 1895968)
I've been that person at times in my life. That person who really just wanted some lighthearted, flirtatious interactions without any commitment or reality. I was always clear that's all I was interested in though. In particular, when I was really sick (but not yet diagnosed) from the Crohn's. I was living a hellish existence and had nothing to give but online chat. I wasn't well enough to get out and socialize, but am a very social person, so online flirtations were great for me at that time.
More often, I think those people are married though.
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I was the same way after my diagnosis. I knew I couldn't get out and socialize, and that helped me feel connected to the outside world. My current mister is from Chemistry, but we have been seeing each other twice a week for 3 months. We do the daily "Good morning!", "Hope you're having a good day," and the occasional random text about something that happened during the day. Most nights we'll talk before bed just to see how each other's days went. Before I met him, though, I did have a few text-based flirtatious things going on that I knew wouldn't become more. However, one guy didn't seem to get the memo and still bugs the ever-living sh*t outta me. |
