If thats what you have to tell yourself to sleep at night, far be it from me to stop you..j/k hehe :)

Lets just face it guys and girls suck when things are going wrong.

I have to agree...I was under the misguided impression that men made more sense as they got older, relationships became less insane...BOY WAS I WRONG! Several guys I know that are 30 are just as cnofusing as the younger version!

I totally agree - women and men will never understand each other! The only thing I've learned to do is figure them out one at a time...you just can't do it any other way. If I had five guys in my life I'd probably be banging my head against the wall right now! I try and stick to one, see what makes them tick, you know? Thankfully, I've had the same one for a LONG time so it's not so difficult anymore. As for the rest of the male population, though, I haven't got a clue!!

It's not like 5 girlfriends, just 5 people whom I hang out with alot in various, mostly casual settings, but could really all of which, except one, be really, really good for me. Oh well! One of which I went to the concert with last night. The 4 are really the ones that are such cool girls/awesome friends that you cannot date them but you really wish you could, and the other is the one who isn't, whom I could, but don't wanna, cause my brain is getting as twisted as this sentence is.

LOL! Every time I watch Sex and the City, I picture myself in ten years having the exact same conversations I have now.