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33girl 10-15-2009 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush (Post 1857966)
I call troll. No man, particularly a fraternity man, is going to be worried about this when it comes to a son.

Either that, or his "Greek membership" was in an honorary or something of the like.

Heli Dad, the "and/or" would make no difference in your statement. I hope you weren't an English professor.

LatinaAlumna 10-16-2009 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by DannyM (Post 1857341)
I have a son who's starting to look around at colleges, and he's somewhat interested in one school (I won't say which, at least not right away) that has some numbers that are alarming to me. I was Greek in college, but the school I was at was somewhat larger than this one. Most people would have still considered it a small school. And the presence of a Greek system, in my opinion, had some unhealthy effects; it really tended to overwhelm just about every other aspect of campus social life, isolated Greeks from non-Greeks and vice versa, and pervaded most aspects of personal relationships. That's not to say that the Greek system there didn't have its strong points; it did. But I can easily imagine that a school that's even smaller might be plagued by these problems to an even greater degree, so naturally I'm a little concerned about my son's possible choice of school (it's nowhere near certain).

So, I'd like to get some opinions on this. What do you think is the smallest enrollment a college can have and still have a healthy Greek system -- and by "healthy" I mean for both Greeks and non-Greeks? I'm particularly interested in the opinions of those who have had a few years to put their college experience in perspective, but welcome all responses.

Also, I've looked around the Internet trying to find some opinions from national Greek organizations regarding this issue but haven't seen any. Have any of those organizations developed any opinions about this and stated them publicly?

Thanks,

Danny Martinez

Are you writing a paper on this topic? (real question)

FSUZeta 10-16-2009 08:36 AM

good call latinaalumna. that had crossed my mind, too.

Kansas City 10-16-2009 11:48 AM

If you really want what's best for your son, you will check your bias at the door, don't worry, and let your son make his own decisions and draw his own conclusions. It is his college life and not yours to relive.

ASTalumna06 10-16-2009 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Kansas City (Post 1858172)
If you really want what's best for your son, you will check your bias at the door, don't worry, and let your son make his own decisions and draw his own conclusions. It is his college life and not yours to relive.

Exactly. And is this really that big of a concern?

Visit colleges with him, make sure he applies on time, send him on his way to wherever he wants to go, let him live his life, call him every so often, maybe visit on parents weekend, and show up on graduation day. It's not that hard.

LatinaAlumna 10-18-2009 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 (Post 1858192)
And is this really that big of a concern?

It is when you're writing a paper and attempting to "research" by posing as a "fraternity dad." :D


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