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That's sort of what I thought you meant by common.
I am wondering if we have the same connotation on "ritual". Ritual is something done behind closed doors, which only members know about. It has been passed down for years. We have flags, but the colors symbolize things we believe in such as knowledge, brotherhood and so on. Not where we are from (although I think Kappa Sigs make such claims and those are on its flag). Symbols are on the flags and words...instead of just colors. I have heard about the Burschenschaft and heard of their political activities. Interesting. I'll be at either The Hague, Netherlands or Berlin in the Spring and hope to travel to see these fraternernities and learn this stuff. |
A 'tradition' is something done again and again for years. The old "but we've always done it that way!"
When we speak of rituals, we are speaking of a ritual ceremony. Some may be private (done behind closed doors and only members may see), others are public. A wedding is a kind of public ritual ceremony. A funeral is another kind of public ritual ceremony. There are common things amoung most wedding/funerals (some specific to certain religious groups, etc), but allows to people to do their own thing. One of the major thing that separates fraternal groups (and I include masons, masonic-like groups, and college fraternities/sororities)from other groups is the use of ritual ceremonies. In these ceremonies, the candidates are revealed certain things, will take and swear by some oath, and the like. But as some of us have noted, while there may be common elements, each college fraternity/sorority has their own unique ceremonies. |
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First off, at our colleges we have a wide range of clubs & organizations. GLOs are but one kind. Some are focused on political matters (college version of our major political parties, or focused on a single issue), some are for various interests of students (poetry, movies, science-fiction, games, etc), some may focus on sports, community service, professional fields (business, law, medicine), etc. Even amoung GLOs, there are certain types. The 'social' GLOs are what most think of when speaking of fraternities. By and large, they are broken down by gender (fraternities for males, sororities for girls). Some are considered "Black GLO", and you also have Latino and multicultural. Social GLOs usually own a house where members live. This is the main draw of GLOs: providing a place to live/eat, but NOT the only draw. GLOs grow out of early dinner clubs and the like (providing students a place to eat and later live, during a time before dorms and such were more common). These groups recruit with a particular recruitment period (traditionally called 'rush', but some may not use that term) and bring in new members thru a period of probationary membership (traditionally called a 'pledge period', but some no longer use that term). Other types of GLO include Service (doing community service is their main focus), professional (bringing students focused on a certain profession, like business, law, medicine is their main focus), and honorary (recognizing the top students in a particular field with membership). These groups may or may not use pledge programs. Pretty much all of these groups are now co-ed. While some fraternities may have flags, that is not a main thing. I think the standard items that each GLO has is: * membership pin/badge * coat of arms * motto * colors (usually 2, which members will get their letter shirts in) * other symbols (certain animal, flower, and the like) Membership is usually shown by the wearing of their membership pin/badge (but some groups may limit this to only formal wear), and letter shirts/jackets. Hats & t-shirts are also common. Pledges (whatever a group may call them) will have a different pin and may be provided with a different t-shirt, but usually until they are full members can not wear any of the above. Please note, I am trying to speak in general terms. Some of these things are not universal to all orgs or all colleges. I've tried to note what is most common, but there will be exceptions, otherwise you'll get a lot of "that's not true of MY group" or "that's not how it is at MY college", etc. Hope this helps. Am sure others will add/correct what I put here. :\ |
You are aware that he is a foreigner who doesn't speak the language fluently, right?
Even if my English was semi-fluent, I would be pissed that you wrote thirty paragraphs and would never read it. |
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We don't really view the jackets and shirts as 'special clothes' per say. Its not like everyone is required to wear them, but most are proud to do so. In some ways, our jackets and shirts serve the same purpose as your 'bands' (which might be called sashes). Quote:
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Running naked in the university is something that happens in the Phillipines. They have fraternities there as well. Don't think it happens in America. Quote:
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But probably not as much as some people think. To a degree it is a cliche' of american fraternities. People watch the movie "Animal House" and think college life and fraternities are like that. Quote:
Reality is there are some who go inactive after being involved for a few semesters. Not sure what the average is. In my organization, the average is a year and a half. |
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However, has he gets older (the last year in school) he becomes less active and shows up for parties and meetings. Not much else. That happens often, but there are exceptions. |
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