l0v333, do what you would do if you did not have us to ask.

if i knew that i wouldnt be asking. if its something u cant answer tho i completely understand

nervousnelly,
Are you in the same state as the university you will be attending? As encouraged above, ask anyone and everyone you know (even men) if they know of a woman who can write you a rec for those sororities. Chances are good they will know someone who knows someone...

Also, at this late stage, for SEC recruitment, I would suggest a phone call instead of an email if you can find a contact number for alumnae panhellenic help. Also, if you are in a small town, concentrate your search in the larger cities of your state.

If you are seeking information regarding references/recommendations for an NPHC sorority, you need to talk to a member of an NPHC sorority. NPC chapters and NPHC chapters do things differently when it comes to recruitment and procedures/requirements for recommendations may vary as well. Every NPHC sorority has their own forum here on GreekChat. I am sure their members will be happy to assist you or get you going in the right direction.

I agree 100% that I would not rely on an email at this late date. If you have truly exhausted personal connections, I would recommend going to the international/national websites of the groups you need, find the closest alumnae chapter to you, and get on the phone. Offer to hand-deliver your resume and photo so that the alumna can meet you in person.