Originally Posted by annabella (Post 1788485)

I think the Mu Omicron Mu sorority is the only one with IHQ policy against shacking. The DAD fraternity will actually kick you out.

ETA: when you say you'd hate for anyone to get "in trouble" with a smiley face at the end do you mean like Penny got "in trouble" in Dirty Dancing? Because that would jsut be funny.

Originally Posted by annabella (Post 1788485)

I think the Mu Omicron Mu sorority is the only one with IHQ policy against shacking. The DAD fraternity will actually kick you out.

ETA: when you say you'd hate for anyone to get "in trouble" with a smiley face at the end do you mean like Penny got "in trouble" in Dirty Dancing? B
because that would jsut be funny.

Originally Posted by Gusteau (Post 1788369)

slight hijack/rant

I hate it when people campaign for the position of sweetheart. Its not something you can apply for nor is it something you should have to earn. Its an honor bestowed on a woman who has become a friend to the members of a chapter. You shouldn't have to do them favors or bake them cookies or do anything like that, Real sweethearts become sweethearts because they do things out of the kindness of their hearts without any thought of the possibility of becoming sweetheart in their minds. And no matter what they tell you sleeping with multiple members makes you XYZ slut not XYZ sweetheart.

End hijack.

Originally Posted by FSUZeta (Post 1788937)

i think the op was just trying to run some of the sororities on her campus down. she could have asked the same question without naming sororities and gotten the same answers.

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1788949)

FWIW, back in the day I was not even CONSIDERED for sweetheart EVEN THOUGH IHQ though enough of my efforts on behalf of the then-colony to have their International President present me with a badge replica necklace. Nope, I was told I could not be sweetheart because I didn't sleep with the members (I replied that I was married to the president, but apparently that wasn't enough :rolleyes:). Once I figured out what kind of "dreams" they wanted a "girl of", I had a completely different view of ALL their sweethearts.

Originally Posted by SWTXBelle (Post 1790092)

Thanks - I found the perfect gift for J - the sweetheart who slept around - http://failblog.files.wordpress.com/...rry-herpes.jpg

Originally Posted by DDDlady (Post 1788360)

On my campus and a few others that I am familiar with, it is generally frowned upon to shack up at a fraternity house, although there are no hard and fast rules. I believe that would be up to the individual chapter, and those girls should know their own chapter's stand. Yet, on one the one hand, it can make your organization look bad, especially if your car or something is outside the fraternity house at 7 am. When people ride by, they do not think"oh.. Jane shacked at the XYZ house again." Its "a ABC shacked at the XYZs house!" Or "gracious, did you hear about the ABC that shacked at the XYZ house last night?"

On the other hand, it can make you look bad personally. You do not want to be known as the girl who always shacks at a certain house (or multiple houses!). It is just not classy or discrete.