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So blindfolding them and having them drink until they were ill is making them feel, "welcomed and special," huh? That young lady who is president must be a PR major to come up with that spin--there is no way anyone should defend that type of behavior--unless she did not have all the facts before she spoke. Or, perhaps she was not told the truth; still, most officers are told that--in the case of extreme emergency or risk management--to refer all questions to an advisor or headquarters.
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All I can say is WOW! I can see fraternities doing that, but sororities? Our idea of making pledges feel welcome and special was giving them copious amounts of candy. I guess if they were sugar intolerant, it could have been hazing...
I'd say drinking til you puke publicly would make one feel special but in a bad way. If all this is true, then they should have gotten the boot. |
There are chapters at Miami that I would believe would do this, but the Tri Delts are not one of them. It's really sad what happened, since they are the second oldest chapter on campus.
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FYI: I just deleted two posts which were discussing events not described in any article I read as if said events happened. C'mon folks, we can do better than that. We all know that a lot of unsubstantiated crap goes into where you found that information and how that's not really appropriate for GC.
The posts have been saved, so if there's something (real) to substantiate that discussion, lay it on me. |
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Kevin,
Before you jerk posts and "scold" posters for referring to "unsubstantiated crap," please read the Cincy. Post article that exlurker posted today. It absolutely lays out the violation and refers to Miami officials as sources. If you have a problem with that article, delete it; if not, don't go after us and make us feel that we made something up. Most of us post after referring to substantiated facts that, often, are made available by a prior post. Again, I don't know which articles you read that "did not discuss the event" that two of us posted on, but I believe that Post article explains just why there was a two-year suspension. What you should boot is any reference to that ridiculous "welcomed and special" quote--now THAT is crap given what really happened. |
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My bad. Earlier today I read one of the posted articles which did not refer to the violations. These things I thought were rumors were posted in the comments part of the story which, IMHO, is about as useful as something which would appear on JC. Having not read that info in the story of wherever I was reading and in the comments, I just figured that it was a rumor. I was clearly wrong.
I've reinstated your posts and I apologize for getting one wrong. I guarantee it'll happen again. :) |
Miami DDD alum
I just got a letter today from the national office about this. I am extremely disappointed in the conduct that led to the suspension of our chapter and its dishonor. These kinds of things are tough to come back from and I am sorry that those involved did not give their actions more thought.
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Thanks, Kevin. I didn't mean to jump on you--I just really try not to post with hearsay as a back-up. In your position, you try to be as fair as possible to all concerned--that is how it should be! Nice job always!
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This is what is bothering me: According to Miami's Fall Grade Report, Tri Delta had 104 members. How many actually took the sisters and broke RMF? Was it sanctioned by the chapter? It was certainly the wrong thing to do, but it is bothering me that a chapter with 98 years of history is shut down due to a handfull of actives. Why couldn't they have had a membership review? Punish the sisters who committed the infraction (early alumn status or expulsion), let the sisters who didn't have anything to do with it stay active, and let the pledges go on to become actives. To be honest, I had the same questions last year with Sigma Sigma Sigma's decision to close their Missouri State chapter and Alpha Kappa Lambda's decision to suspend their Truman State chapter for 2 years. Again, I am not trying to criticize, just question. |
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I sorry that the chapter closed.
I am curious, what happens to the pledges/new members. They obiviously wanted to be in a greek org, which is now gone for 2 years. They have yet been initiated, so they aren't unaffiliated collegate members (I think that's the term Tri Delt used), so are they just SOL? Can they re-rush another group, or are they bound by the 1 year rule? I feel worse for them than the actives. At least the actives can still become active alumna members. |
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ForeverRoses - since the chapter has closed their pledge to DDD is broken and they can re-rush another sorority immediately. Whether they want to or how this would go over is another story. |
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