I think it is kind of hard for prospects to understand things like colors and "why are they so mean" issues unless you have been enlightened by others. I am fortunate to attend a school where we all just KNOW the 'do's/dont's", but i most definitely was clueless when i first got here. And even if i did do research and read a book or something, it might not have been that easy to swallow.

Yes there is no policy stating do's and don's. Which is why I think Having BGLO Forums should be held each semester on college campuses. These questions where very eye opening at the very little people know. While research is key, I believe these forums really can help for ALL of the questions that could fit into 2 hours were answered. These were only a small, small portion but out of the approx. 300 students, most of them left greatly informed and on the right track.

Before my MIP, I was very, very, VERY uneducated on Greek Life. I didn't know the first thing when it came to "proper etiquette" and boy oh boy did I have some embarrasing moments. I attended a greek forum and an informational and was highly enlightened! lol

At this forum, did they talk about the proper way to express interest? If so, how was it described?

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Though there are some good insight/suggestions and what not, I'm hesitant on where this "conversation" could lead. Thanks for everyones input :D