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DSTCHAOS 12-11-2007 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by starang21 (Post 1561368)
ok,

light, bright, damn near white?

:thinking:

and long straight hair.

Liar.

starang21 12-11-2007 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1561376)
Liar.

:looks at chaos:

:party:

:fap:

mccoyred 12-11-2007 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1561153)
I assume you are a "white Latino" (in layperson's terms :)) so it makes sense that this would translate into "racial" differences (rather that just cultural and ethnic) in your family's eyes. In this country and in Latin American countries, there is a great social divide between groups of people based on the color of their skin, features, and hair texture. So things like attractiveness and social status (i.e. the white privilege that people of European background receive all over the world) will be based on that. If you date someone of the African diaspora, familiarity with each other's "culture" would have to include acknowledging and discussing this without being too consumed with it.

There was a special on PBS recently about this issue in Brazil. Very sad state of affairs. If I find a link or article, I will post it.

NinjaPoodle 12-14-2007 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by mccoyred (Post 1561390)
There was a special on PBS recently about this issue in Brazil. Very sad state of affairs. If I find a link or article, I will post it.

I hope you find it, I'd really be interested in reading that.:)

DSTCHAOS 12-14-2007 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle (Post 1563605)
I hope you find it, I'd really be interested in reading that.:)

Could this be it?
http://www.pbs.org/frontlineworld/ro...l_cutting.html

Fawn Liebowitz 12-14-2007 06:09 PM

Please excuse my forum crash - I thought this was an interesting topic.

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"they think they're better than you, they're nerdy, or they smell like
wet dog
I try not to date anyone that smells like wet dog, regardless of race, and I have to admit, that really made me laugh - I've never heard that one!

PrettyBoy 12-15-2007 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Fawn Liebowitz (Post 1563649)
I try not to date anyone that smells like wet dog, regardless of race,

:eek:

PrettyBoy 12-15-2007 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1417313)
Personally, I simply date who I'm attracted to, whatever their race.

The only thing I take issue with is people who exclude certain races from their "dating pool" based on stereotypes. For example, black men who only date white women "because black women are lazy, ghetto, and make bad mothers." That's a stereotype. Or black women who won't date white men because "they think they're better than you, they're nerdy, or they smell like wet dog" That's also a steretype. If you're going to stick to certain races, that's fine. But don't base your choices on things that are ignorant and untrue.

LMAO! :D

mccoyred 12-15-2007 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1563621)

No, thats not it. It was PBS, though. http://www.pbs.org/wnet/wideangle/shows/brazil2/

NinjaPoodle 12-15-2007 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by mccoyred (Post 1563877)
No, thats not it. It was PBS, though. http://www.pbs.org/wnet/wideangle/shows/brazil2/

Thank you for finding this.


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But with national surveys identifying over 130 different categories of skin color, including "cinnamon," "coffee with milk," and "toasted," who will be considered "black enough" to qualify for the new racial quotas?
Wow, just wow. A whole other level.:(

OhSoVeryLadylike 12-15-2007 04:14 PM

Julian McMahon
Hugh Laurie

DSTCHAOS 12-15-2007 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by mccoyred (Post 1563877)
No, thats not it. It was PBS, though. http://www.pbs.org/wnet/wideangle/shows/brazil2/

Thanks for the link!

Honeykiss1974 12-17-2007 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle (Post 1563913)
Thank you for finding this.

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But with national surveys identifying over 130 different categories of skin color, including "cinnamon," "coffee with milk," and "toasted," who will be considered "black enough" to qualify for the new racial quotas?
Wow, just wow. A whole other level.:(

It sounds like the coffee menu at Starbucks. :(

NinjaPoodle 12-17-2007 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1417313)
Personally, I simply date who I'm attracted to, whatever their race.

The only thing I take issue with is people who exclude certain races from their "dating pool" based on stereotypes. For example, black men who only date white women "because black women are lazy, ghetto, and make bad mothers." That's a stereotype. Or black women who won't date white men because "they think they're better than you, they're nerdy, or they smell like wet dog" That's also a steretype. If you're going to stick to certain races, that's fine. But don't base your choices on things that are ignorant and untrue.

Totally agree

Confucius 12-18-2007 07:35 PM

^^^^^I agree. As for myself, I take what I can get. :D


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