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Liberal_South 07-19-2006 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Scandia
A spin-off.

Would you think that someone in his/her late 20s who has never been in a serious relationship is lame or has something wrong with him/her?

This person has dated various people, but rather early on both people have realized that they are not for each other. The person is still a virgin- due both to religious morals as well as not having found the right person yet.

The person otherwise has many friends- including long close friendships of over 8 years. The person gets along well with his/her family, has a successful career, many hobbies and interests, and has a very healthy attitude towards life. Not to mention the person lacks a criminal record and is debt-free.
I hope this is completely hypothetical since it's unnerving to think that a potential girlfriend of mine would do both a background and a credit check on me. Not that I have anyhitng to worry about of course.

But yes, someone who has never been in a serious relationship has something wrong with them. Look at the signs. I went out with a girl who had a bunch of boyfriends- she had alot for a reason, she was smokin', yet she was nuts.

Drolefille 07-19-2006 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Scandia
A spin-off.

Would you think that someone in his/her late 20s who has never been in a serious relationship is lame or has something wrong with him/her?

This person has dated various people, but rather early on both people have realized that they are not for each other. The person is still a virgin- due both to religious morals as well as not having found the right person yet.

The person otherwise has many friends- including long close friendships of over 8 years. The person gets along well with his/her family, has a successful career, many hobbies and interests, and has a very healthy attitude towards life. Not to mention the person lacks a criminal record and is debt-free.
Without re-opening the cans of worms lying around,

I'd have to meet the person. If they seemed fairly "normal" and were interesting and attractive, I'd be interested. If they were ok, but not my cup of tea, I would say not thanks, but not think that they're lame. Sounds like a fairly average person except for the sex. I wouldn't let the virgin thing turn me off, but I'd still need the compatibility to turn me on.

/Not like that...

kddani 07-19-2006 07:09 PM
Insecurity and a need for self-validation via a message board comes across as lame.

KSigkid 07-19-2006 08:16 PM
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Originally Posted by AKΨ_BRO@DSU
And It also weakens your immune system. It does more negative than positive to the human body. That's an indisputible fact and REALLY none of the people who have posted prior to this one has said, "I drink to stay healthy".
The study you site is 15 years old, and is dubious, at best. However, here are a couple of sites (Mayo Clinic and Harvard School of Public Health, fairly reputable sources) that explain that drinking alcohol in moderation can have health benefits:

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/alcohol/SC00024

http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritio...e/alcohol.html

As these sites show, while it's not healthy to go out every night and drink 20 beers, get sloshed and throw up, alcohol in moderation can add to a healthy regimen.

It seems you're twisting medical data to support your opinion, and it's not working.

OtterXO 07-20-2006 01:48 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Scandia
A spin-off.

Would you think that someone in his/her late 20s who has never been in a serious relationship is lame or has something wrong with him/her?

This person has dated various people, but rather early on both people have realized that they are not for each other. The person is still a virgin- due both to religious morals as well as not having found the right person yet.

The person otherwise has many friends- including long close friendships of over 8 years. The person gets along well with his/her family, has a successful career, many hobbies and interests, and has a very healthy attitude towards life. Not to mention the person lacks a criminal record and is debt-free.
Hmmmm....well that's a more interesting question. I think someone who has never been in a long term relationship may go through more learning if you date them so that would be something to deal with, but if the person was great I probably wouldn't even think twice about it.

And plus, any man without a criminal record will ALWAYS get a second look from me....LOL. :p

tunatartare 07-20-2006 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by OtterXO
And plus, any man without a criminal record will ALWAYS get a second look from me....LOL. :p
I would hope that most men you date wouldn't have a criminal record! (Unless of course it's something minor like being arrested for being publicly drunk when you were 18.)

AlphaFrog 07-20-2006 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy
I would hope that most men you date wouldn't have a criminal record! (Unless of course it's something minor like being arrested for being publicly drunk when you were 18.)
Or armed robbery...you know...the little stuff.;) :p

OtterXO 07-20-2006 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy
I would hope that most men you date wouldn't have a criminal record! (Unless of course it's something minor like being arrested for being publicly drunk when you were 18.)
(you know I was kidding right?) :p

tunatartare 07-20-2006 02:08 PM
yes

OtterXO 07-20-2006 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy
yes
Just wanted to make sure....plus, if I did date a criminal I would just tell him compassionately that it was very unattractive when he committed armed robbery but I wouldn't let it ruin the relationship.

Drolefille 07-20-2006 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted by OtterXO
(you know I was kidding right?) :p
What about the no debt? That means he can pay my student loans!

Drolefille 07-20-2006 02:12 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by OtterXO
Just wanted to make sure....plus, if I did date a criminal I would just tell him compassionately that it was very unattractive when he committed armed robbery but I wouldn't let it ruin the relationship.
LMAO.... as well you shouldn't!

Marie 07-20-2006 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted by OtterXO
Just wanted to make sure....plus, if I did date a criminal I would just tell him compassionately that it was very unattractive when he committed armed robbery but I wouldn't let it ruin the relationship.
And you've got to remember to tell him that while you 'except' him as he is you'll still pray that he will realize the error of his ways.

Drolefille 07-20-2006 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Marie
And you've got to remember to tell him that while you 'except' him as he is you'll still pray that he will realize the error of his ways.
Loudly... in front of him... instead of sex.

kddani 07-26-2006 06:57 PM
So did you guys ever figure out if you were lame? lol


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